Self-evaluation

Day 6 (with Wimbledon-induced delay) of the #wpad blog challenge.

Self-evaluation? For me, that means oscillating between illusions of grandeur and nagging, agonizing self-censorship.

The other day, I was asked to describe the strengths and weaknesses in my writing. It was quite easy for me to come up with strengths but I could not name my weaknesses. This is not because I think I don’t have any. I’m sure they are numerous (otherwise surely I would have “made it” as a professional writer by now, wouldn’t I?). But I couldn’t define them.

Perhaps that is because I don’t think about them, what they might be. Which brings me to the grandeur aspect of self-evaluation.  Which is probably one of the reasons why I write.

Sometimes – no, let’s be honest: often – I look at what I’ve written and think, “damn, I’m good.” Or, not quite the same but just as satisfying: “I really like my story, my style.” You could say I’m rather full of myself. But if I didn’t feel like that, I would not be writing. And I daresay, this applies to everyone who fancies him- or herself a writer.

So I think I’m brilliant, only to be cut back down to size and perhaps beyond by my own inner censor. This happens when I re-read and think, “this really sucks” or “who the hell is going to be interested?” Or, perhaps worst of all, a general “all very nice but I’m never going to make it.”

Self-evaluation? Very tricky. It’s like trying to get a proud mother to be honest about her child’s abilities and weaknesses. So I go for feedback from others instead – that is, I sometimes do that. Usually my inner censor stops me from sending my stuff to others, telling me I shouldn’t bother bothering them with my self-indulgent crxx.

Advertisements

Leave a comment

Filed under writing

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s